Sunday, 29 March 2015

TIFU by liking the wrong guy; plzhelp


Okay, so like most posts on here, this happened about a week ago. Okay so I’ll just set the scene: I’m a first year uni student and I live with a few lads and some girls but apart from me and one other, the girls tend to keep themselves to themselves. So me, this other girl flatmate and the lads went on a night out. We all get on really really well and me and one of the lads (lets call him Ed) get on particularly well, constantly flirting but neither of us have ever tried anything, what with him having a recent girlfriend back home and we’re flatmates – that’s just not going to work, right? So, we went on a night out last week, and as per got absolutely bladdered. It was a really good night, prinks were brilliant, we all got completely pumped to go out and it was just a good vibe. While we were out, I pulled one of Ed’s friends who had been flirting all night and I thought yeah, great, he’s a cool guy. So we kicked it off well but before we could really get into it, we were being dragged apart (dramatic, I know) and we went out separate ways back to our uni’s. I hadn’t seen much of Ed throughout the night, but once we got back in the taxi, it’s like he wouldn’t acknowledge me and was being really off with me so I just left him to it not wanting him to shit on the good vibe still going from a good night. I don’t remember much between then and getting back home but then as per Ed comes into my room and we’re just chatting about the night and he’s being pretty forward, snuggling with me on the bed, then he moves us to his room (he reckons his bed is comfier) so I just went with it, I was pretty comfortable, whats a hug between friends. But while we’re under the covers in his room he starts to get all touchy feely and we end up feeling each other up and getting off. I tried to push him away a few times but I was drunk and had thought about doing this for a long time but never pursued it. Between desperate kissing and fumbling, he mentions being jealous of me and his friend which is why he wouldn’t talk to me earlier. That’s where I stopped and said this couldn’t happen, he protested and tried to pull me back but I went back to my room (reluctantly might I add). We didn’t say much about it the next morning, as nothing really happened, but he mentioned it on another night out that he’s going to have to tell his gf what happened, which I get that he has to be honest and everything but I stopped it before anything worth telling happened. Since then though we’ve carried on flirting and he’s made more advances but at the same time telling me nothing can happen because he has a gf. He’s confusing the fuck out of me and I don’t think I have the will power to put him off much longer but would feel terrible on his gf, I don’t want to be that girl.



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